My life has been a space of perpetual learning. Here are a few of the key lessons, of the thousands I have logged over the years.
When you fully take responsibility, you will get that whatever happens to you, you allow. So, if there is something that makes you uncomfortable or that goes against your values – that is when you need a boundary! What happens when you don’t have them?
You feel abused, used, taken advantage of. But the truth is that you have allowed this to happen to you. Time to take control. In short, putting boundaries in place creates respect.
You put a boundary in place by telling the other person how what they are doing makes you feel, and you request exactly what you want in the future.